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Encouraging connections

Conversations don’t have to be complicated. Asking simple questions and responding to feedback you receive are the first steps to successful communication.

This document and the accompanying video aim to support you and the person you care for to have a better experience when spending time together outdoors. Print it out or pull it up on your phone.

Watch the accompanying video

When filling a story box together consider objects that may remind people of a happy time or relationship in their life.

Photos and objects can give people pleasure even if they do not remember the details. Including objects with sensory interaction (e.g. soft things to touch or sweet things to smell) brings an added benefit. It is important to remember that senses decline with age and because of dementia. Note which senses the person you are caring for may have lost. This is most often sight and hearing but can very often also be smell and taste. Fill the box with objects that they can most interact with.

There are endless possibilities as to what you can include and these can be swapped out if some are not working. Remember, the most important part of this experience is that you and the person you are caring for have conversation starters to support a shared time together.

Here are some objects to consider when filling your story box.

  • Post cards
  • Photos
  • Jewellery
  • Clothes
  • Books/Magazines
  • Perfume
  • Objects from their career (tools, stationery etc.)
  • Objects related to past and present hobbies (golf balls, playing cards, yarn etc.)
  • Souvenirs from holidays

Meet our experts

Thessa Verwolf

Thessa is the Relationship-Centred Care Coordinator, facilitating workshops on communication, relationship-building, and dementia care for team members within Nightingale Hammerson. Additionally, alongside the psychology team, she runs relative peer support groups, helping families navigate care with empathy and compassion. Previously, she worked as an Engagement Lead, where she supported the social and emotional well-being of individuals living with advanced dementia. With a background in English Literature and publishing, and currently pursuing an MA in Psychology, Thessa brings a unique blend of skills and expertise to her role. She is especially passionate about non-verbal communication, sensory engagement, and Namaste Care.

Arielle Rostant

Arielle’s love for supporting positive and fulfilling relationships has led her from being a teacher, to training as a Drama and Movement Therapist to, since 2021, working in Nightingale Hammerson.
Currently completing a MSc at UCL in Clinical Mental Health, with a speciality in Dementia, Arielle hopes that her work can support older people to continue living engaged and fulfilling lives no matter their care needs.

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